“A person who does not judge his neighbor gives evidence that he is saved. Whoever does not judge will not be judged, as the word of God verifies: ‘Judge not, that you will he not judged.’” [That is why he told us]  “Has a judgmental thought about someone come to you? Don’t just sit there, debating with yourself whether that person is to blame or not. Justify everyone and take all the blame yourself. As soon as you start having negative thoughts about someone else, there is a danger that you will judge him.”

Elder Joseph the Hesychast
~My Elder Joseph

For there is nothing hid , which shall not be manifested ; neither was any thing kept secret , but that it should come abroad .
Mark 4:22